Sunday, January 15, 2006

the grass is always greener on the other side?

erm... tink wat the two of u said is kinda true lah... but frankly speaking, finding ur percieved other half doesn't really turn ur life 180deg and catapult u rite to the heavens... ok... mebbe at the beginning at least... :X well, as the saying goes, "you3 de2 bi4 you3 shi1"... u gain smth, and u lose smth in return... u get companionship, and u lose the time u want to haf alone; u gain a listening ear that u share ur innermost thots, and u lose the priviledge to think for urself? the grass is always greener on the other side...

yupz... nzj must share wif us his love history... bwahaha!~! then we can listen to some juicy stuff... ok lah... tink this kinda thing must sui2 yuan2 lor, it'll come when it does... :)

7 comments:

nzj© said...

haha. gd try to dig stories alphabitz but there's nothin much to it actually. not juicy like beef steak; just bitter like bile.

fattybombom said...

Hahahaaaa....I tot it was a pretty good bid too. hahahaa...Oh well...bitter like bile? Even at the start? I'm sure there were sweet parts right?

ALpHaBiTz said...

yeah lor... ok lah... but i doubt u'll eva tell us if u dun intend to anyway... well, i see that u're opening up to BGR agn, so it shouldn't really haf been that bad rite? ahH... sometimes itz nice to talk bt the past u see...

nzj© said...

yar. i realise that i shdn't have said that it's bitter like bile; only the ending is. think not only u need much skills to maintain a relationship; u need those when ending it too. how i envy my friends who manage to step down their relationships to the level of "friend"...

fattybombom said...

aiyah, keep her as a friend will bring u another kind of pain also. There'll always be the nagging idea at the back of your head about getting back together becoz she seems fine as a friend. Better to have a clean break. Problem is SG is so small, sure bump into one another one.

nzj© said...

hmm.. depends on the relationship ba. my friend seems to be coping well.
and sg is no longer small once any one of you decide to study overseas.
then sure cannot meet for years liao.

tokimeki said...

staying as frens..
think it's like quite bittersweet man..
while u dun want to lose a fren..
i tink it's horrible to see her/him being with sumone else which is sooner or later la.
especially if you haven't found anyone urself.